Contacts adding error! Urgent Nokia 5800

I have discovered a terrible problem with palringo's last version, I have a Nokia 5800, recently people have been adding my msn account to their contact lists, therefore, I had to confirm by just selecting "accept contact" once that little alert pops up, except now it says I gotta add the contact to my address book, (It did show that before) but unlike in the previous versions, it now doesn't add the contact and I always end up losing the chance to know who it was, recover that persons email and chat again.

I have confirmed this by adding one of my accounts as contact of other of my accounts, it happened just like before and I never get a new friend in my address book, so I end up not knowing who added me and generally it is important...

It has happened 4 times now, all of them in a row since I installed the last update recently...

I could use some help, if it's possible to recover the contacts which were never added would be awesome...

Sorry if I am using a bad english, I am really out of practice with the language but still...

Thank you in advance... :)

I'll detail what happens...

1. X person adds my msn address to their contact list

2. Palringo alerts me by popping up a little orange guy with the name of this X person that added me and says this guy added me to his contact list... all of this occurs in the main screen, right?

3. I touch the alert and it gives me the options: "accept, private chat, or reject", as soon as I select accept it tells me this guy isn't on my contacts list, and it asks me to confirm if I want to add it...

4. Unlike in the previous version (Where as soon as you confirmed that it showed you a message "contact added" or something.... and then I this guy showed up on my contacts list) now it just doesn't show that and the contact is never added so I lose the invite...

that's it